Lilo

Lilo

Wednesday 2 November 2011

Never enough.........

......................Hours in the day or days in the week!!!


I feel as if i've been running around trying to get some things done and not really getting anywhere. 
Just as well i'd had those few days on Skye to relax, laugh and enjoy with Linda.
Mind you - Peter was relaxing, laughing and enjoying with Lachie, so i was happy about that!!!!


Since coming back, i feel as if my ear has been stuck to the phone to sort out things, my bum on a seat at meetings or knee deep in paperwork and not finding the bit of paper i need.
Actually, i lie about the paperwork - i haven't even got that far yet, but i know i won't find it and will need to phone and get a replacement!!


First thing to do last week was to phone to check that Peter's respite for the weekend was ok. The person who deals with it had phoned while we were away.
Only trouble was , she was out of the office and they couldn't access the files needed.
Tuesday i phoned the respite family to explain - and Chris said "oh, heck, just bring him down and we'll sort it later. You know the funding is in place.


I also had a meeting with Enable to meet a new worker. Her name is Sarah and she's lovely. She's covering the thursday shift, so her and Peter are doing Art Class together. We still have to work on wednesday cover - we thought one person might be available, but they're not too keen on going swimming.
In between all this, i had to phone the Lawyer to organise an appointment to deal with the renewal of the Guardianship order we have for Peter. We have to make some changes on this, so that will be fun.
By friday, the respite was officially confirmed by the office and i had Peter's bags packed.
Done, dusted and he was going!!!


So we had a fairly quiet weekend.
A bit of shopping, started some ironing and  not much else - i seemed to lack the energy!
I picked Peter up from respite yesterday - he had a great time!! He'd been swimming and to a Halloween party . He and Sarah had gone out guising on monday evening - he came home with enough sugary sweetie things to last him an age and nearly £8!!!!


The lawyers this morning - had to fill out paperwork and thankfully, we should get Legal Aid for the application. The medical reports themselves can add up to a few hundred pounds alone before we even get a mental health report. I don't grudge paying for things, but this is one thing that i would not really be able to afford - and it's something we really need to do for Peter. Especially the financial part of it. The council have said that  we need that in place for the bank account that will eventually have Peter's support budget in it.


So it was off to the bank to ask for up to date statements, back home to look for stuff. I have found one thing we need and think i know where the other is. I may need to make a call or 2 to get another bit of info, so that'll be done the next day or so.


And i wonder why i feel so tired?!?!?!?!?!?


Just as well ASDA have Southern Comfort litre bottles on a special offer just now - i think i'll be needing a scoop or five before the week it out!!!!

5 comments:

  1. Sounds like you need another break away after all that paperwork! Thank god you found some comfort elsewhere....southern or otherwise!! Enjoy, you deserve it ;-)

    xx Jazzy

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  2. I can totally understand why you didn't feel up to doing much while Peter was in Respite, I find the same these days. Since most of my time is spent rushing around after the kids, if they are not there I don;t feel like doing much at all x

    PS: guising is a new word to me!

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  3. Guising - just the Scottish word for trick or treat. But we don't really do the trick bit - well usually!!

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  4. Paperwork, don't you just bloody hate it! Glad you got a bit of a rest while Peter was in Respite.

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  5. One last bit of paperwork to do fill out the form for Peter's bus card and send it off. Then we're sorted. Till the next time!!

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